A little bit of both. I believe that there is a plan for my life, something that I'm meant to do and am uniquely qualified to do, something that would bring me happiness. There is a reason why I'm here. But at the same time, it's not like a mandate; I can choose to go along with the plan or not to. It's not set in stone, if that makes sense...
Do you believe that a higher power controls our fate or that we choose our own destinies?